UGH!! What a mess. I feel bad for you but now you know what direction your relationship is going. I hope the medical bills get under control. It's hard enough dealing with these disease w/o emotional problems. Emotional problems are present even thought we try to handle them the best we can. When you have a relationship that is not working it makes it very hard.
My husband just had an angiogram/angioplasty and the outcome was not good. He has calcium in all his arteries; an abdominal aneurysm that is right on the cusp for surgery; carotid artery issues; and, artery problems in his right leg. He is 12 years older than me and said he has lived a long life and whatever happens, happens. That's not a very comforting thought. I have to try and accept his line of thought but it leaves me feeling quite alone. I've felt like this for a long time anyway because he really doesn't understand what I have and doesn't want to. I have 3 daughters but they have their lives. This is just a bad time for me too but I'll manage and get over it. I'm glad you're back with your mom and you can maneuver the stairs. That is so important. Keep up the good work.
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